Practical Biblical Solutions
Not Settling
“Don’t settle.” That phrase is everywhere in modern dating advice, especially for young women. Sometimes it’s healthy—it can mean, “Don’t marry someone who abuses you, disrespects you, or pulls you away from Christ.” But there’s a darker side that rarely gets talked about. The negative side of “not settling” is [...]
Romantic Perfection
Romantic perfection is one of the quiet killers of Christian relationships today. It sounds noble—“I just want God’s best”—but underneath, it often means “I want a flawless person and a flawless love story.” It swaps a biblical view of love for a fantasy that no real-life man or woman can [...]
Ultra Picky Women
Modern dating has made “high standards” feel like a badge of honor. Many young women are told they should “never settle,” and on the surface, that advice sounds empowering. After all, no one wants to encourage compromise when it comes to big things like faith, integrity, or emotional safety. But [...]
Craving Attention
Craving attention is one of the quiet undercurrents shaping a lot of young women’s lives today. It can look playful or harmless from the outside, but underneath there is often a deep ache: “Does anyone really see me? Do I matter? Am I worth noticing?” In a culture that constantly [...]
Validation Addiction
Addiction to validation is a quiet bondage that many people carry around with a smile on their face. It looks harmless on the surface—checking for likes, fishing for compliments, replaying conversations in your head—but over time it can shape how you think, what you choose, and even who you believe [...]
Finding Your Voice
For many married women, the struggle to speak up feels like a battle fought behind closed doors and polite smiles. Years can pass before a wife realizes she’s lost her voice—her sense of agency, her ability to say what is true and what she really needs. If suffering in silence [...]