Practical Biblical Solutions
10/10, Really?
If you spend any time online or listen to the talk in dating circles, you’re bound to hear phrases like, “She thinks she’s a 10/10,” or “I deserve someone who’s a perfect 10.” It’s not just women—men do this, too. But much of the conversation these days centers on the [...]
The Girl Next Door
When someone mentions "the girl next door," instantly a picture forms in most people’s minds: the young woman who’s kind, friendly, genuine, and comfortable in her own skin. She’s the classic archetype found in countless movies, books, and even real-life neighborhoods—someone who might not be the center of attention but [...]
Bad Boys
If there’s one term that gets tossed around in dating conversations—especially among women disappointed by relationships—it’s the “bad boy.” You’ll see him depicted in movies, sung about in country and pop music, and sometimes the real-life focus of interest for women who might otherwise consider themselves “good girls.” But what’s [...]
The “304 Phase”
If you spend any time online, especially in certain corners of social media and pop culture, you may have come across the term “304 phase.” While it might sound like just another bit of internet jargon, there’s actually a lot beneath the surface—and as a Christian counselor, it’s a phrase [...]
Body Count Curse
There’s a phrase making the rounds in modern dating conversations: “body count.” Far from a crime novel, this slang term refers to someone’s number of sexual partners. Men, especially, are voicing concerns about women they perceive as having a high body count. It’s the kind of question that stirs up [...]
Frame Up
If you’ve ever scrolled through relationship advice on YouTube or social media, you’ve probably encountered the word “frame.” Influencers toss it around in conversations about dating, confidence, or navigating tough interactions. But what does this term actually mean? In simple terms, your “frame” is your internal set of beliefs, values, [...]