Below is a 30-item Divorce Risk Assessment designed to help couples identify factors that may increase the likelihood of marital challenges or divorce. Each item represents a potential risk factor. After completing the assessment, use the scoring guide to interpret your results. Assessment Items Mark each item that applies to your relationship: Poor communication of [...]
Marriage is one of God’s most beautiful gifts, designed to reflect His covenant love for us (Ephesians 5:25-33). Yet, even within this sacred union, challenges arise. Sometimes, a husband may feel deeply unhappy in his marriage but struggle to express it. Recognizing the signs of this unhappiness is crucial for addressing the root causes and [...]
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, and within that covenant, physical intimacy plays a vital role. When this aspect of marriage is missing, particularly for men, the effects can be profound—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Let’s dive into how a sexless marriage impacts men, viewed through the lens of Scripture and biblical principles. God’s [...]
Infidelity is a painful and complex issue that affects many marriages, leaving both partners with deep emotional wounds. From a Christian perspective, understanding why a spouse might cheat involves exploring the underlying causes and the biblical principles that guide us in navigating such situations. This article aims to provide insight into the reasons behind infidelity [...]
The Sexual Satisfaction Inventory (SSI) is a tool designed to help individuals assess their level of satisfaction with their sexual relationship. It explores various dimensions of sexual satisfaction, including emotional connection, communication, physical pleasure, and overall relationship dynamics. This inventory is intended for use by individuals seeking to understand and potentially improve their sexual well-being. It can [...]
The Marital Distress Inventory is designed to assess the degree of distress in a marital relationship. It covers various dimensions of marital interaction and can be used to identify areas of concern. The inventory consists of 25 items, each rated on a scale from 1 to 5, where: 1: Rarely or none of the time [...]
In many marriages, a decrease in sexual desire or initiation can be a challenging issue to address. It's not uncommon for husbands to stop asking for sex due to various reasons, ranging from personal struggles to relationship dynamics. From a Christian standpoint, understanding these reasons and approaching them with grace and biblical wisdom can be [...]
Polyamory—the practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships simultaneously with consent—has gained visibility in recent years. As a Christian counselor with decades of experience guiding individuals and families through relational challenges, I’ve witnessed firsthand the emotional and spiritual complexities that arise when people step outside the biblical framework for intimacy. While polyamory may seem appealing [...]
Intimacy is a vital component of healthy relationships, but many couples struggle with feeling too tired or not in the mood for physical and emotional closeness. This common issue can stem from various factors, including stress, fatigue, health problems, and relationship dynamics. Understanding the root causes and implementing effective strategies can help couples revitalize their [...]
So, you've just found out your partner has a porn addiction. Ouch. That's gotta hurt. You're probably feeling a whole mix of emotions right now - betrayed, angry, confused, and maybe even wondering if it's somehow your fault. Let's take a deep breath and dive into this tricky topic together. What's the Deal with Porn [...]
