If you’ve clicked on this article, chances are you’re tired of the endless cycle of arguments with your partner. Don’t worry—you’re not alone. Every couple faces disagreements, but constant arguing can drain the joy out of your relationship. As Christians, we’re called to approach our relationships with love, patience, and humility, reflecting Christ’s example. So [...]
The Secure Attachment Inventory for Couples is designed to help partners assess the health and security of their emotional bond. Secure attachment in relationships is characterized by mutual trust, emotional availability, effective communication, and the ability to balance intimacy with independence. This inventory consists of 30 items that evaluate various aspects of attachment security, including emotional connection, [...]
Marriage is meant to be a reflection of Christ’s love for the Church—a relationship filled with love, grace, and mutual care. But let’s be honest: sometimes, even in Christian marriages, we find ourselves feeling distant, disconnected, and unfulfilled. Emotional neglect is one of those silent killers that can creep into a marriage unnoticed, leaving one [...]
Marriage is a sacred covenant, a lifelong commitment between a husband and wife to honor, cherish, and remain faithful to one another. In today’s interconnected world, where interactions with members of the opposite sex are inevitable—whether at work, church, or social settings—it’s essential for married couples to establish clear boundaries. These boundaries are not about [...]
Let’s face it—marriage isn’t always the fairy tale we imagine on our wedding day. As Christians, we hold marriage in high esteem, seeing it as a covenant not just between two people but also before God. Yet, despite our best intentions, many marriages end in divorce. Why is that? What causes so many couples, even [...]
Introduction The "Marital Health Assessment" is designed to help couples evaluate key aspects of their relationship. By identifying areas of strength and weakness, couples can gain insights into their dynamics and work toward improving their connection. The test covers critical domains such as communication, intimacy, conflict resolution, trust, finances, and shared goals. Each question invites [...]
Below is a 30-item inventory designed to assess communication skills in marriage. Each item is rated on a 5-point Likert scale: 1 = Strongly Disagree 2 = Disagree 3 = Neutral 4 = Agree 5 = Strongly Agree Inventory Items: Listening Skills I actively listen to my spouse without interrupting. I paraphrase what I hear to confirm understanding. I validate [...]
Below is a 30-item Divorce Risk Assessment designed to help couples identify factors that may increase the likelihood of marital challenges or divorce. Each item represents a potential risk factor. After completing the assessment, use the scoring guide to interpret your results. Assessment Items Mark each item that applies to your relationship: Poor communication of [...]
Marriage is one of God’s most beautiful gifts, designed to reflect His covenant love for us (Ephesians 5:25-33). Yet, even within this sacred union, challenges arise. Sometimes, a husband may feel deeply unhappy in his marriage but struggle to express it. Recognizing the signs of this unhappiness is crucial for addressing the root causes and [...]
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, and within that covenant, physical intimacy plays a vital role. When this aspect of marriage is missing, particularly for men, the effects can be profound—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Let’s dive into how a sexless marriage impacts men, viewed through the lens of Scripture and biblical principles. God’s [...]
