The Weight of Unwantedness Some of the deepest heartaches known to humanity aren’t caused by physical loss or disappointment, but by the gnawing ache of feeling unwanted. When people say the worst feeling is feeling unwanted, they’re expressing the soul-crushing pain of being rejected or excluded, especially by those whose opinion and affection matter most. [...]
Marriage counseling can feel mysterious—even scary—for couples considering it for the first time. There’s worry about what will be said, what will be discovered, or how painful the process might get. But the truth is, understanding what’s ahead can help couples walk into counseling with much less anxiety and a lot more hope. When you [...]
Marriage counseling can feel a bit mysterious. Some couples walk away transformed, building deep, satisfying relationships, while others leave counseling feeling more discouraged or embattled than before. Why does this happen? Why do some couples benefit so greatly, yet others claim things just got worse? When we look closer, it’s clear that outcomes often hinge [...]
You see the warning signs. Arguments seem to circle back to the same old hurts, and the laughter has faded into polite conversation or, worse, stone-cold silence. You know you both need help, perhaps desperately—but he shakes his head, crosses his arms, and says, “We’re fine. We’ll get through this.” In Christian marriages, this scene [...]
Picture a couple who arrives in a counselor’s office with their marriage hanging by a thread. The hurt is palpable. They’re not sure whether they want to stay or go, but they hope—almost desperately—that the counselor can “fix” everything in just a few sessions. This scenario is the classic last-ditch effort, and while it’s common, [...]
Every Christian wife longs to be heard—truly listened to and cherished. But sometimes, it seems as if there are invisible walls between husband and wife. Words fall flat, feelings go unacknowledged, and what should be deep connection instead turns into silent frustration. If this describes your marriage, you’re not alone. Many women in Christian homes [...]
Every Christian wife at some point faces challenges in her marriage—some small, some that feel overwhelming. The story of Abigail from 1 Samuel 25 offers a powerful, encouraging model of what it looks like to walk through even the toughest circumstances with wisdom, courage, and faith. The “Abigail spirit” is not mere passivity, nor does [...]
If there’s one theme that comes up again and again in counseling offices, over coffee with friends, and even in prayer journals, it’s women’s deep and often unspoken frustration with men. This isn’t about bashing men or ignoring the struggles they face. Instead, it’s about acknowledging that countless women, across cultures and Christian traditions, name [...]
When people think of Christian marriage, they imagine joy-filled homes, lifelong commitment, and biblically-rooted love. But for many, the reality is far more complicated. “The Silent Crisis” explores why divorce happens among believers, what the real numbers show, how faith influences attitudes and healing, and how the Body of Christ can respond with both truth [...]
If you've spent any time around teenagers, on social media, or even just listening to everyday conversation, you’ve probably heard someone say, “Don’t be so salty!” In relationships, being “salty” isn’t about seasoning your food—it’s slang for being obviously annoyed, bitter, or resentful, especially after feeling slighted, criticized, or losing at something. It might look [...]
