“Mid”—just three little letters, but they pack an outsized punch in the world of dating. If you’ve heard singles, especially young people, tossing around this term, you know it means something—or, more precisely, it means something isn’t much of anything at all. In today’s dating scene, “mid” has become a shortcut to dismiss what’s seen [...]
The image is everywhere—confident women in pink power suits, clutching coffee, climbing the corporate ladder, all smiles and hashtags. The “Boss Babe” ideal is all about independence, ambition, and a life defined by career success. While there’s much to admire in working hard and making your mark, there’s a downside few talk about: what do [...]
“Strong, independent women don’t need a man.” This slogan echoes throughout pop culture, social media feeds, and even mainstream advice columns. Young women are taught from an early age to rely only on themselves and to see dependence on a man as weakness or even betrayal of their gender. At first glance, the rallying cry [...]
Marriage is meant to be a partnership of mutual trust, love, and intimacy. Sexual union, as a gift from God, should serve to bless, unite, and strengthen the marital bond. Yet, in the complexities of human relationships, sex can be twisted into a tool for control, manipulation, or punishment—what counselors and psychologists increasingly call “weaponized [...]
In today's world of dating apps, endless swiping, and social media connections, the phrase “Do Not Chase” has taken on fresh relevance. But what does it really mean, and why should it matter? At its heart, “Do Not Chase” is a call to refrain from relentlessly pursuing someone who is not showing mutual interest, effort, [...]
It’s a common misconception that men care only about physical appearance when choosing a partner. In reality, good men—those seeking meaningful, lasting relationships—are drawn to much more than just looks. While initial attraction is natural, qualities like character, kindness, humor, integrity, and shared values are what create a deep connection that stands the test of [...]
In today’s dating world, a powerful idea floats above every conversation—the “prize” mindset. This is the belief that women are naturally the prize in relationships; being female somehow makes one desirable by default, while the man must prove his worth across a long list of traits and accomplishments. This narrative is everywhere—woven into TV shows, [...]
The phrase “dating down” is tossed around in modern relationship discussions, often laced with negativity or judgment. At its heart, dating down means choosing a romantic partner who is seen as “less than” oneself in some meaningful area—whether that’s financial status, education, physical attractiveness, social standing, or emotional health. The measuring stick is almost always [...]
Opening Up About an Unequal Heart When one spouse wants to walk away and the other desperately wants to restore the marriage, the pain can feel overwhelming. Saying “I don’t want a divorce” feels brave and vulnerable—especially when the other person seems set on ending things. This is a lonely road, but countless Christians have [...]
When people think of a wife’s greatest gift to her husband, they might picture grand gestures, romantic surprises, or acts of devotion. But Scripture points us to something far deeper and more powerful: unconditional respect. This isn’t tied to what he earns or deserves, but given freely as an affirmation of his worth, mirroring the [...]
