As Christians, we are called to love others as Christ loves us. However, bringing unresolved emotional issues and past hurts into a relationship can make truly loving another person very difficult. Whether it's a dating relationship, engagement or marriage, emotional baggage can weigh down and even destroy an otherwise healthy Christian relationship if not properly [...]
As a Christian counselor, one of the most painful situations I encounter is when a married couple is considering separation or divorce. It breaks my heart to see the devastating impact this has on the individuals, their children, and their witness for Christ. At the same time, I recognize we live in a fallen world [...]
Divorce has become an all too common reality in our society, even among Christians. While God's ideal is for marriage to be a lifelong covenant relationship, the sad truth is that many Christian marriages end in divorce. This can have a devastating impact on the family, especially the children. As the body of Christ, it's [...]
Relationships are the foundation of a fulfilling life, but they don't come easy. Building extraordinary relationships takes effort, emotional intelligence, and effective communication skills. While there's no magic formula, using certain key phrases can help foster deeper connections, increase intimacy and trust, and navigate conflicts in a healthy way. Here are some powerful phrases to [...]
As Christian parents, one of our most important responsibilities is to model godly character and behavior to the children God has entrusted to our care. More than just teaching them biblical principles, our lives should exemplify what it means to faithfully follow Christ in word and deed. The power of our example cannot be overstated [...]
Marriage is a precious gift from God, designed to reflect the intimate, sacrificial love between Christ and His church. As Christian couples, we are called to nurture and celebrate the romantic love that drew us together, while keeping God at the very center of our relationship. By cultivating romance in a way that honors God, [...]
As a Christian counselor, I have worked with countless married couples seeking to honor God in their relationship. One of the most important truths I emphasize is that husbands and wives are meant to function as teammates - partners who work together to fulfill God's purposes for their marriage and family. When couples embrace this [...]
Premarital counseling is one of the wisest investments an engaged Christian couple can make in their future marriage. While wedding planning often takes center stage during the engagement period, intentionally preparing for the lifelong commitment of marriage is even more critical. Premarital counseling, especially from a Christian perspective, lays a strong foundation for a healthy, [...]
Marriage is a sacred covenant between a man, a woman, and God. It is intended to be a lifelong union characterized by love, faithfulness, and mutual support. However, when one spouse struggles with substance abuse, it can have a devastating impact on the marriage relationship and the entire family. For Christians, substance abuse is not [...]
Blended families, formed through remarriage after divorce or the death of a spouse, are increasingly common in the church today. In fact, approximately one-third of all weddings in America form stepfamilies. While blended families can be a wonderful example of God's redemptive love, the reality is that the unique dynamics and challenges they face often [...]
