So, you’re engaged—or thinking about it—and suddenly what seemed like a straightforward path turns cold and slippery. The question at the front of your mind: “Is this normal, or am I about to make a giant mistake?” If that sounds familiar, take a deep breath. Cold feet before marriage are much more common than you [...]
“Mid”—just three little letters, but they pack an outsized punch in the world of dating. If you’ve heard singles, especially young people, tossing around this term, you know it means something—or, more precisely, it means something isn’t much of anything at all. In today’s dating scene, “mid” has become a shortcut to dismiss what’s seen [...]
The image is everywhere—confident women in pink power suits, clutching coffee, climbing the corporate ladder, all smiles and hashtags. The “Boss Babe” ideal is all about independence, ambition, and a life defined by career success. While there’s much to admire in working hard and making your mark, there’s a downside few talk about: what do [...]
“Strong, independent women don’t need a man.” This slogan echoes throughout pop culture, social media feeds, and even mainstream advice columns. Young women are taught from an early age to rely only on themselves and to see dependence on a man as weakness or even betrayal of their gender. At first glance, the rallying cry [...]
In today's world of dating apps, endless swiping, and social media connections, the phrase “Do Not Chase” has taken on fresh relevance. But what does it really mean, and why should it matter? At its heart, “Do Not Chase” is a call to refrain from relentlessly pursuing someone who is not showing mutual interest, effort, [...]
It’s a common misconception that men care only about physical appearance when choosing a partner. In reality, good men—those seeking meaningful, lasting relationships—are drawn to much more than just looks. While initial attraction is natural, qualities like character, kindness, humor, integrity, and shared values are what create a deep connection that stands the test of [...]
In today’s dating world, a powerful idea floats above every conversation—the “prize” mindset. This is the belief that women are naturally the prize in relationships; being female somehow makes one desirable by default, while the man must prove his worth across a long list of traits and accomplishments. This narrative is everywhere—woven into TV shows, [...]
The phrase “dating down” is tossed around in modern relationship discussions, often laced with negativity or judgment. At its heart, dating down means choosing a romantic partner who is seen as “less than” oneself in some meaningful area—whether that’s financial status, education, physical attractiveness, social standing, or emotional health. The measuring stick is almost always [...]
In today’s world, the idea of being a “gentleman” can seem old-fashioned or even misunderstood—reduced to opening doors or dressing well. But from a Christian perspective, being a gentleman is much more than courtesy or outward manners. It is about embracing a Christlike heart, where humility, respect, and self-control shape every word and action, especially [...]
Every Christian who honestly examines life knows there’s a daily battle raging within. This isn’t just about external temptations or the pressures of living in a broken world; it’s about the persistent conflict between our sinful nature and the new life Christ gives us. Scripture is clear: “For the flesh sets its desire against the [...]
