In today’s world, the idea of being a “gentleman” can seem old-fashioned or even misunderstood—reduced to opening doors or dressing well. But from a Christian perspective, being a gentleman is much more than courtesy or outward manners. It is about embracing a Christlike heart, where humility, respect, and self-control shape every word and action, especially [...]
Every Christian who honestly examines life knows there’s a daily battle raging within. This isn’t just about external temptations or the pressures of living in a broken world; it’s about the persistent conflict between our sinful nature and the new life Christ gives us. Scripture is clear: “For the flesh sets its desire against the [...]
Ever had the sense you could walk into a room and disappear? Like nobody’s eyes pause on you, nobody calls your name, and nobody seems to notice whether you’re even there? Maybe you sit with a group of people—classmates, coworkers, even family—and feel just as isolated as if you’d never shown up. If so, welcome [...]
Wander through any college campus, workplace, or even a church fellowship hall, and you might notice something unsettling. There are young men everywhere, but many seem checked out—going through the motions, but not fully present. They’re not causing trouble or making dramatic declarations. Instead, they seem to be quietly giving up. This is more than [...]
Sometimes the simplest truth is the most misunderstood. “Boys aren’t girls.” Growing up, we all notice that boys and girls act differently, play differently, and often think and feel differently. But what starts off as common sense can get lost in today’s world, where there’s pressure to treat every child the same or pretend differences [...]
If you talk to teachers, pastors, parents—even the boys themselves—most will admit something’s just not right. Across the United States, and in many other countries, boys are faltering in obvious and painful ways. This isn’t alarmism; it’s a societal trend you can see in classrooms, neighborhoods, and homes. The term “Boy Crisis” has emerged to [...]
Walk into any coffee shop, church fellowship hall, or parent-teacher night, and ask, “How are the young men doing?” You’re likely to get a mix of worried sighs, stories of struggle, and, if folks are honest, a sense that something’s just off. Across the country, there’s a growing realization that, in many key measures, men—especially [...]
When a family falls apart, it’s never just the parents who feel the impact. Children, no matter their age, are deeply affected by the breakup of their family unit. While some may outwardly seem to adjust, the hidden wounds and long-term challenges for children of divorce can be significant and far-reaching. As a Christian counselor, [...]
If you’re a woman navigating today’s dating world, chances are you’ve experienced “the ick.” One moment, you find yourself feeling excited about a new romantic prospect, maybe even picturing a future together. The next? Bam—something tiny, even silly, happens and suddenly all your attraction vanishes. You can’t stand the thought of another date. That wave [...]
If you’ve spent any time on dating apps, online forums, or social media, you’ve probably heard someone talk about “Chasing Chad.” This phrase has seeped into today’s dating culture as a tongue-in-cheek way of describing women who focus their romantic efforts on a specific type of man: the “Chad.” But what exactly does this mean? [...]
