Marriage is often described as a contract between two people, but this view fails to capture the true nature and significance of marriage as a social institution. While marriage does involve legal elements, it is much more than just a contractual agreement. There are several important reasons why marriage should not be reduced to a [...]
In today's fast-paced dating world, it's easy to find yourself in ambiguous romantic entanglements that lack clear definition or commitment. These "situationships" have become increasingly common, especially among younger generations. However, for those seeking deeper connection and long-term fulfillment, intentionally cultivating meaningful relationships offers significant benefits over the uncertainty of situationships. Understanding Situationships vs. Relationships [...]
Relationships are the heart of the human experience, shaping our joys, sorrows, and personal growth. Among these connections, the bond we share with our romantic partner is uniquely impactful, offering a profound sense of intimacy, support, and understanding. As we navigate life's complexities, nurturing and strengthening this bond becomes essential for fostering a fulfilling and [...]
Intimacy is a cornerstone of a healthy marriage, serving as a vital connection between spouses that encompasses emotional, physical, and spiritual dimensions. However, intimacy avoidance can be a significant issue in Christian marriages, leading to feelings of loneliness, resentment, and disconnection. This article explores the causes, signs, and solutions for intimacy avoidance within the context [...]
As a Christian counselor with decades of experience working with families, I've seen firsthand how crucial a secure attachment between parent and child is for healthy development and lifelong wellbeing. A secure attachment provides children with a strong foundation of love, trust, and support that allows them to confidently explore the world and form positive [...]
In our fast-paced, technology-driven world, it's easy to lose sight of the profound importance of human connection. We often find ourselves rushing through interactions, multitasking during conversations, or avoiding meaningful engagement altogether. However, there is a transformative approach to relationships that can deepen our capacity for love and enrich our lives: practicing the presence of [...]
In contemporary society, the pursuit of happiness and self-fulfillment is often touted as the ultimate goal of life. This perspective, however, stands in stark contrast to the worldview held by many Christian parents. Rooted in biblical teachings and a deep understanding of the purpose of life as defined by Scripture, Christian parents often reject the [...]
Marriage is intended to be a beautiful, intimate union between two people who love and support each other. However, even in Christian marriages founded on biblical principles, unhealthy power imbalances can sometimes develop that undermine the health and stability of the relationship. Understanding the dynamics of power, authority and submission in marriage through a biblical [...]
Our early relationships, especially with caregivers, significantly shape our self-identity and how we relate to ourselves and others in adulthood. Recognizing and addressing the impact of childhood experiences can be crucial for developing healthier relationships. Childhood is a formative period that lays the foundation for an individual's emotional, social, and psychological development. The experiences and [...]
Mixed signals can be one of the most frustrating and confusing aspects of dating and relationships. One moment, the person you're interested in seems completely invested - texting you constantly, making plans for the future, and showering you with affection. The next, they're distant, unresponsive, and seemingly uninterested. This emotional rollercoaster can leave you feeling [...]
