Dating in 2025 has become a complex and often frustrating experience for many. With changing cultural norms, technological challenges, and shifting priorities, an increasing number of men and women are stepping away from the dating scene altogether. From a Christian perspective, this trend invites us to explore the deeper spiritual and relational issues behind this [...]
Marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God, and within that covenant, physical intimacy plays a vital role. When this aspect of marriage is missing, particularly for men, the effects can be profound—emotionally, spiritually, and relationally. Let’s dive into how a sexless marriage impacts men, viewed through the lens of Scripture and biblical principles. God’s [...]
Infidelity is a painful and complex issue that affects many marriages, leaving both partners with deep emotional wounds. From a Christian perspective, understanding why a spouse might cheat involves exploring the underlying causes and the biblical principles that guide us in navigating such situations. This article aims to provide insight into the reasons behind infidelity [...]
In many marriages, a decrease in sexual desire or initiation can be a challenging issue to address. It's not uncommon for husbands to stop asking for sex due to various reasons, ranging from personal struggles to relationship dynamics. From a Christian standpoint, understanding these reasons and approaching them with grace and biblical wisdom can be [...]
Polyamory—the practice of engaging in multiple romantic relationships simultaneously with consent—has gained visibility in recent years. As a Christian counselor with decades of experience guiding individuals and families through relational challenges, I’ve witnessed firsthand the emotional and spiritual complexities that arise when people step outside the biblical framework for intimacy. While polyamory may seem appealing [...]
Intimacy is a vital component of healthy relationships, but many couples struggle with feeling too tired or not in the mood for physical and emotional closeness. This common issue can stem from various factors, including stress, fatigue, health problems, and relationship dynamics. Understanding the root causes and implementing effective strategies can help couples revitalize their [...]
When a partner cheats, it can feel like the world has been turned upside down. For many men, the discovery of infidelity is a gut-wrenching experience that leaves them reeling, questioning everything they thought they knew about their relationship and themselves. While everyone's experience is unique, men often face particular challenges when it comes to [...]
In recent years, the concept of polyamory has gained increased attention, even within some Christian circles. As a Christian counselor, it's crucial to address this topic from a biblical standpoint, examining God's design for marriage and relationships. Understanding Polyamory Polyamory, derived from the Greek "poly" (many) and Latin "amor" (love), refers to the practice of [...]
In our increasingly digital and fast-paced world, forming and maintaining authentic, meaningful connections with others has become both more challenging and more essential than ever. As human beings, we have a fundamental need for social connection and belonging. Research has shown that loneliness and social isolation can have serious negative impacts on both mental and [...]
As Christians, we are called to love God and love others. But what should that love look like in practice? Should our relationships with God and fellow believers be primarily transactional - based on exchanges and reciprocity? Or should they be fundamentally relational - rooted in genuine care and connection? This is an important question [...]
