Today, more parents, schools, and churches are sounding the alarm: our children are being over-therapized. That is, they’re swept into therapy and sometimes medication for ordinary struggles that were once managed within families and faith communities. The intent is often good, but the side effects can do more harm than help—and as Christians, we need [...]
Sometimes the simplest truth is the most misunderstood. “Boys aren’t girls.” Growing up, we all notice that boys and girls act differently, play differently, and often think and feel differently. But what starts off as common sense can get lost in today’s world, where there’s pressure to treat every child the same or pretend differences [...]
When a family falls apart, it’s never just the parents who feel the impact. Children, no matter their age, are deeply affected by the breakup of their family unit. While some may outwardly seem to adjust, the hidden wounds and long-term challenges for children of divorce can be significant and far-reaching. As a Christian counselor, [...]
In contemporary society, the pursuit of happiness and self-fulfillment is often touted as the ultimate goal of life. This perspective, however, stands in stark contrast to the worldview held by many Christian parents. Rooted in biblical teachings and a deep understanding of the purpose of life as defined by Scripture, Christian parents often reject the [...]
Our early relationships, especially with caregivers, significantly shape our self-identity and how we relate to ourselves and others in adulthood. Recognizing and addressing the impact of childhood experiences can be crucial for developing healthier relationships. Childhood is a formative period that lays the foundation for an individual's emotional, social, and psychological development. The experiences and [...]
Raising children is a complex and challenging task, especially in today's world where values and beliefs are constantly being tested. For Christian parents, the stakes are even higher as they strive to instill biblical principles and a strong faith foundation in their children. One of the most crucial aspects of effective parenting is presenting a [...]
Create a loving, supportive home environment One of the most important things parents can do is foster a home atmosphere of unconditional love, acceptance, and emotional safety. Children need to feel secure in their relationship with their parents and know they can come to them with any struggles or concerns. Make time for quality one-on-one [...]
Gentle parenting has gained significant traction in recent years, promoted as a compassionate and nurturing approach to raising children. Proponents argue that this method fosters strong emotional bonds, empathy, and self-regulation in kids. However, despite its well-intentioned principles, an overemphasis on gentle parenting techniques can inadvertently lead to unintended consequences that may harm a child's [...]
As Christian parents, one of the most heartbreaking and confusing situations you may face is having a child who expresses that they are struggling with gender dysphoria - feeling that their biological sex does not match their internal sense of gender identity. While the world increasingly celebrates transgenderism and encourages those with gender dysphoria to [...]
Divorce has become an all too common reality in our society, even among Christians. While God's ideal is for marriage to be a lifelong covenant relationship, the sad truth is that many Christian marriages end in divorce. This can have a devastating impact on the family, especially the children. As the body of Christ, it's [...]
