It’s called “walking away,” and if you’ve spent any time talking to young men—or counseling them—you know it’s a real, growing phenomenon. More guys than ever before are stepping back from dating and marriage, or just not showing up in the first place. They’re not all taking vows of singleness or joining a monastery. Most [...]
Let’s just say what everyone’s quietly thinking: most women, when it comes to choosing a husband or building a family, aren’t actually looking for a movie star or some superhero. They’re not after a man who just wants to look tough on the outside or keep up with cultural trends. They want a real man—someone [...]
Take a look around and it’s hard to miss: there’s a lot of hand-wringing about masculinity in America. Some say it’s become toxic, something to be avoided or tamed; others believe men today simply aren’t “man enough” anymore. You hear about the “feminization” of the American male on talk shows, in books, and even from [...]
Walk into any bookstore, turn on the television, or scroll through social media today, and you’ll quickly see a narrative taking shape: masculinity is misunderstood and, in many ways, maligned. Words like “toxic” get thrown around, painting manhood as something to be tamed, contained, or even erased. The growing movement to feminize men—encouraging them to [...]
It’s one of those stats that surprises almost everyone who hears it: “Women rate 80% of men as below average in attractiveness.” It’s been repeated in think pieces, debated on forums, and sparked plenty of feelings—frustration, disbelief, even humor. But what’s really going on with this so-called “80% mystery,” and what does it mean for [...]
Let’s be honest: in today’s world, ranking women based on attractiveness is almost as common as checking your phone in the morning. Whether we realize it or not, we’re surrounded by media, conversations, and even social events that send the message: looks are what matter most. Flip through a magazine, scroll through social media, or [...]
We’ve all heard someone say it, perhaps in a movie, on social media, or maybe behind someone’s back at a party: “He’s totally dating out of his league.” It’s a phrase that gets tossed around lightly, sometimes meant as a compliment, other times as gentle (or not-so-gentle) teasing. But what does it really mean to [...]
If you scroll through social media, chat with teens or college students, or just listen in on any lively conversation, you’ll probably hear it: “Spill the tea!” It’s a phrase that instantly signals curiosity, excitement, and maybe a hint of mischief. We all know what comes next—someone has some juicy story, a secret to reveal, [...]
The digital age hasn’t just changed how we live and work—it’s profoundly altered how we connect, build relationships, and protect ourselves. In recent years, nowhere is this seen more sharply than in the rise of platforms like the Tea App, often described as a “whisper network” for women. Here, stories—sometimes warnings—about men in the dating [...]
If you’ve spent any time in the world of online dating, you know it can be both exciting and daunting. The hope of meaningful connection is real, but so, too, are risks—emotional pain, deception, even danger. That reality is what led to the creation of The Tea App, a women-only mobile platform that’s stirred up [...]
