Have you ever said, “Look, I said I’m sorry; can we just drop it?” OR “All right, fine. I’m sorry. Do you feel better now?”
Where did we get the idea that two simple words have the power to absolve all offenses and heal all wounds? When did we come to believe that we are allowed to let our tongues flap loosely, make selfish decisions, and then simply shut the lid on the whole ordeal with these two little words? The world may operate this way, but make no mistake—there is no magic in them. More often than not saying, “I’m sorry” does not absolve, heal, lead to reconciliation or restored relationships.
Escape Responses: These responses are used to get away from a conflict instead of trying to resolve it. They delay healing.
Attack Responses: These are wrong attempts to win a fight rather than resolve it. They damage a relationship further rather than repairing it.
Work-It-Out Responses: These are the only good ways to respond to a conflict.
The “Five A’s” can resolve conflict. These simple steps will almost always lead to peace.
Forgiveness is a choice, not a feeling. By forgiving someone, we are making four promises:
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