Probability of Marital Success Test

This test is designed to assess various factors that contribute to the probability of marital success. Each item should be answered based on your current or prospective marital relationship. Use the following scale to respond to each statement:

1. Strongly Disagree
2. Disagree
3. Neutral
4. Agree
5. Strongly Agree

Section 1: Communication and Conflict Resolution

1. We communicate openly and honestly about our feelings.
2. We resolve conflicts through discussion and compromise.
3. We avoid criticizing each other during disagreements.
4. We listen to each other without interrupting.
5. We express appreciation and gratitude regularly.
6. We make time to talk about our day-to-day experiences.
7. We address issues as joint problems rather than blaming each other.
8. We have a “magic ratio” of five positive interactions for every negative one.
9. We use non-verbal communication effectively to express our feelings.
10. We are sensitive to each other’s needs and emotions.

Section 2: Shared Interests and Activities

11. We have common interests that we enjoy together.
12. We spend quality time together doing activities we both enjoy.
13. We have shared goals and dreams for the future.
14. We regularly plan and enjoy date nights.
15. We participate in hobbies or activities that are important to both of us.
16. We support each other’s individual interests and hobbies.
17. We enjoy spending time together without distractions.
18. We create and maintain rituals or traditions together.
19. We look forward to planning future activities and vacations together.
20. We engage in activities that help us grow closer as a couple.

Section 3: Mutual Understanding and Support

21. We understand each other’s strengths and weaknesses.
22. We support each other’s personal and professional goals.
23. We are committed to each other’s happiness and well-being.
24. We respect each other’s opinions and perspectives.
25. We are willing to compromise to resolve differences.
26. We trust each other completely.
27. We feel emotionally connected and supported.
28. We forgive each other’s mistakes and move forward.
29. We feel comfortable sharing our deepest thoughts and feelings.
30. We work together to overcome challenges and obstacles.

Section 4: Family and Social Support

31. Our families approve of our relationship.
32. We have a good relationship with each other’s families.
33. We receive support from our friends and family.
34. We spend time with each other’s families and friends.
35. We feel accepted by each other’s social circles.
36. We seek advice and support from trusted family members or friends when needed.
37. We manage in-law relationships effectively.
38. We feel that our families are invested in our relationship’s success.
39. We celebrate important family events and milestones together.
40. We integrate our families into our lives in a healthy way.

Section 5: Personal Background and Compatibility

41. We had a happy and stable childhood.
42. We have similar educational backgrounds.
43. We share similar religious beliefs and practices.
44. We have similar values and life goals.
45. We were well-acquainted before getting married.
46. We were both older than 20 when we got married.
47. We did not marry due to external pressures (e.g., premarital pregnancy).
48. We married for genuine reasons such as love and understanding.
49. We have similar social and cultural backgrounds.
50. We feel that we are a good match in terms of personality and interests.

Scoring and Interpretation

Add up the scores for each item. The total score will range from 50 to 250.

• 200-250: Very high probability of marital success. Your relationship exhibits many of the key factors associated with long-term marital stability and satisfaction.
• 150-199: High probability of marital success. Your relationship has many strengths, but there may be areas to work on.
• 100-149: Moderate probability of marital success. There are several areas that may need attention to improve the relationship.
• 50-99: Low probability of marital success. Significant effort may be needed to address the challenges in your relationship.

This test is a tool to help you reflect on your relationship and identify areas for improvement. For a more comprehensive assessment, consider seeking guidance from a professional counselor.