The Sexual Satisfaction Inventory (SSI) is a tool designed to help individuals assess their level of satisfaction with their sexual relationship. It explores various dimensions of sexual satisfaction, including emotional connection, communication, physical pleasure, and overall relationship dynamics. This inventory is intended for use by individuals seeking to understand and potentially improve their sexual well-being. It can be used personally or in a therapeutic setting under the guidance of a professional counselor.

Answer each question honestly based on your experiences over the past month.

Scoring Scale:

Inventory Items:

  1. I feel emotionally connected to my partner during sexual activities.

  2. My partner and I openly discuss our sexual needs and desires.

  3. I am satisfied with the frequency of our sexual encounters.

  4. I feel comfortable expressing my sexual preferences to my partner.

  5. My partner respects my sexual boundaries.

  6. I experience physical pleasure during most sexual activities.

  7. I feel valued and appreciated by my partner during intimacy.

  8. Our sexual activities are mutually enjoyable.

  9. I am able to communicate my sexual dissatisfaction to my partner.

  10. My partner is supportive of my sexual health needs.

  11. I feel a strong emotional bond with my partner outside of sex.

  12. I am satisfied with the variety of our sexual activities.

  13. My partner is attentive to my needs during sex.

  14. I feel confident in my ability to please my partner sexually.

  15. Our sexual relationship is free from coercion or pressure.

  16. I am able to achieve orgasm during sexual activities.

  17. I feel comfortable initiating sexual contact with my partner.

  18. My partner is open to trying new sexual experiences with me.

  19. I am satisfied with the level of intimacy in our relationship.

  20. I feel secure in expressing my sexual desires without judgment.

  21. My partner shows affection and love during sexual activities.

  22. I am able to relax and enjoy sexual activities without stress.

  23. Our sexual activities are well-balanced in terms of giving and receiving pleasure.

  24. I feel that my partner understands my sexual needs.

  25. Overall, I am satisfied with my sexual relationship.

Scoring Method:

Sum all scores from the 25 items to get a total score ranging from 25 (Lowest Satisfaction) to 125 (Highest Satisfaction).

Interpretation:

    • : Low sexual satisfaction

    • : Moderate sexual satisfaction

    • : High sexual satisfaction

    • : Very high sexual satisfaction

This inventory is designed to provide a general assessment of sexual satisfaction and should be used as a tool for self-reflection or in a clinical setting under professional guidance.