High Body Count

A "high body count"—meaning a high number of previous sexual partners—is a topic that comes up often in Christian circles, dating discussions, and even in general conversations about love, trust, and commitment. Does it really matter if someone has a lot of past sexual experiences? The answer isn’t as simple as a “yes” or “no.” [...]

If there’s a question that makes Christian couples squirm in the weeks or months leading up to engagement, it’s this one: “How many people have you had sex with?” It can pop up suddenly—maybe during a walk, over coffee, or on a late-night call. One person gets brave and asks, or maybe it’s expected as [...]