Key Thought: A wise husband discerns that his role is crucial in achieving oneness.
The husband’s role includes three responsibilities:
In this article, we will address the husband’s responsibility of caring.
“ For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church.” NKJV
“No one hates his own body but lovingly cares for it, just as Christ cares for his body the Church, of which we are parts.” TLB
Word Study:
‘nourishes’ (GK. Ektrepho)—lit. to nourish or feed; nurture or provide for a need.
‘cherishes’ (GK. Thalpo)—to keep warm, as of a mother bird covering her young with her feathers as she sits on her nest.
Practical meaning:
Practical application:
Provision
Protection
Note: Most men get a deep sense of satisfaction from providing for and protecting their wives. It boosts their self-image as a man—they feel needed and important.
Tip: Consider having an informal discussion with your wife about the major and minor areas in which she feels vulnerable, insecure, fearful, or frustrated. Take action to make her feel more secure and safe.
Note: Your wife will feel that you value her and are helping her expand her life so that she can become an even more productive person.
Note: What are some of the personal problems that you wife wants resolved?
Conclusion: By consistently caring for your wife (providing and protecting) you will promote oneness in the relationship.
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